It’s a rare kid who loves doing chores. A lot of the time, it takes either financial incentives or veiled threats to get some help around the house .
But, when asking our children to help with household tasks, is there a line? Like age, for example?
Following the appearance of a chore guide online, which outlines what kids from age 2 to 11 should be doing, a debate has erupted amongst parents , with many labelling it as being “too harsh”.
So what do you think? Is it a harmless way of teaching youngsters the importance of hard work and responsibility? Or is it a bit much?
Originally created by the sport mum parenting site, Sports Mom Survival Guide , the guide advises parents what sort of chores kids should be able to do at each age, starting from when they’re toddlers .
Age 2 to 3 years
At this tender age, kids are expected to make their bed, pick up toys and books, put laundry in a hamper, help feed the family pets, help wipe up messes and dust – using a sock on their hand.
Age 4 to 5 years
Fast-forward a couple of years, and children should be able to clear and set the table, load the dishwasher, empty cutlery from the dishwasher, take laundry to the washing machine, pair up socks and fold them, put away their clothes, tidy their room and fetch the post.
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Age 6 to 8 years
Your kid is getting older, and the tasks are getting harder. These now include emptying the dishwasher completely, cleaning bathroom sinks and counters, sorting laundry b colour, helping pack their school lunches, watering plants and flowers and emptying the bins.
Age 9 to 11
Now the chores are getting serious! By this age, parents should aim for their kids to clean the toilets, take out the bins, vacuum, mop, mow the lawn, help with food preparation and walk the dog.
No doubt the guide was intended as a harmless (but helpful) list, but other parents weren’t on board with it.
One mum wrote, “Just remember, they are only little once! (Yes my children did and still do jobs! They are now 19, 18, &16 and very self sufficient, but I’m still their mum!) It’s great to help out, but not to become the slave!”
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Another commented: “Wow! 9 to 11 mowing lawns? Ummm I don’t think so. There’s some chores that really only adults can do. At 12 they’re no way near old enough to babysit safely.”
That said, others agreed with the importance of getting your child to help out.
“Soon as my daughter turned one I gave her a chore. To feed the dog, even if it’s one kibble at a time. I’m disappointed by all the parents being so reluctant to have their kids do house work,” one mum added.
