While it’s said that some constructive conflict can be healthy for a relationship, ensuring disagreements don’t escalate into counterproductive combat is a goal for most couples. We want to hear how you keep your cool in the heat of the moment and your best tricks for stopping a fight before it starts.
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Tell us: what’s your best trick for stopping a fight?
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