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We adopted seven kids after their parents were killed in a car crash – we already had five, plus six grandchildren


A LOVING couple adopted seven siblings after their parents were killed in a car crash – despite already having five of their own plus six grandchildren.

Pam and Gary Willis, from Menifee, California, decided to take in the young kids after reading about their story on Facebook.

Pam and Gary Willis, from Menifee, California, adopted the seven siblings after they lost their parents in a car crash

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Pam and Gary Willis, from Menifee, California, adopted the seven siblings after they lost their parents in a car crashCredit: second.chance.7/Instagram
The couple already had five grown up children of their own who had since moved out of home

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The couple already had five grown up children of their own who had since moved out of homeCredit: second.chance.7/Instagram

The children lost their parents in May 2018 when the family’s car flipped on a highway, and with no family to take them in, they were at risk of being separated.

But thanks to thanks to Pam, 49, an attorney, and Gary, 52, a US Navy veteran, the four brothers and three sisters were able to stick together and were given a loving home which made them “immensely happy”.

Speaking to Metro, Pam said: “When I saw the news about the kids it made me so sad. I looked at them and could see they needed a forever home.

“I called the adoption service every week to show them how much I wanted to help these children.

Adelino, 15, Ruby, 13, Aleecia, eight, Anthony, seven, Aubriella, six Leo, five and Xander, four are incredibly happy in thier new home

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Adelino, 15, Ruby, 13, Aleecia, eight, Anthony, seven, Aubriella, six Leo, five and Xander, four are incredibly happy in thier new homeCredit: second.chance.7/Instagram
Pam heard about the kids on Facebook and quickly expressed interest in adopting them

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Pam heard about the kids on Facebook and quickly expressed interest in adopting themCredit: second.chance.7/Instagram

“From the moment we first met them it was instant love. I looked at Gary and we both could see they are really great kids and knew we were doing the right thing.”

The couple were already used to helping kids in need, as the pair fostered children for several years, taking in two to three at a time.

And with their five children – Matthew, 32, Andrew, 29, Alexa, 26, Sophia, 22 and Sam, 19 – now grown up and moved out of home, they had plenty of space for the siblings who are all aged under 16.

The seven kids were in a children's home for a year before moving in with Pam and Gary

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The seven kids were in a children’s home for a year before moving in with Pam and GaryCredit: second.chance.7/Instagram
The kids have settled in nicely and even call them mum and dad

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The kids have settled in nicely and even call them mum and dadCredit: second.chance.7/Instagram
The kids all suffered major injuries following the crash but made a full recovery

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The kids all suffered major injuries following the crash but made a full recovery Credit: second.chance.7/Instagram

Adoption wasn’t always a part of the plan, though, until Pam saw the news about the orphaned kids on Facebook.

Despite surviving the crash, unlike their parents, all seven of the young kids suffered from major injuries, but all made a full recovery before being rehomed.

Pam and Gary “didn’t think twice” before picking up the phone and calling the adoption agency.

In just a matter of weeks, the couple were given permission to visit and meet the kids – Adelino, 15, Ruby, 13, Aleecia, eight, Anthony, seven, Aubriella, six Leo, five and Xander, four – who had been living in a children’s home for one year.

Pam and Gary previously fostered children before formally adopting these kids

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Pam and Gary previously fostered children before formally adopting these kidsCredit: second.chance.7/Instagram
The kids have now been with Pam and Gary for 15 months

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The kids have now been with Pam and Gary for 15 monthsCredit: second.chance.7/Instagram

“I hated the thought of having a big six-bed house that’s empty because my kids have grown up and moved out, Pam said, “I didn’t want to have all these rooms and no one to live in them.”

Three months later, in June last year, the couple finally became parents of 12, welcoming the grateful siblings into their home for the first time.

At first, Pam said there were some issues with settling in, such as gaining their trust and sleep disturbances, which were to be expected.

But they’ve since settled in nicely and have been “a joy” to have around – and they’ve already come around to calling them mum and dad.

They are incredibly happy in their new home

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They are incredibly happy in their new home Credit: second.chance.7/Instagram

Pam said they get along with her and Gary’s older children, and have even gone on family trips together, including to Disneyland Resort in California.

It’s now been 15 months since they’ve been a family, and Pam said the “magnificent seven” are happier now than ever before.

She said: “My older kids were very welcoming and treated the younger ones like their own. It is pretty full on looking after seven children so my older two daughters do help out whenever I need a hand.

“I have noticed how incredibly happy they are and that makes me so happy too, because that’s all we ask for.

“The oldest of the seven, Adelino, said to me recently ‘thank you for giving us this life’ and there is no other feeling like that.”

The mum-of-12 shares highlights on her Instagram page, which is filled with family snaps.

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