Over the past year, Vanessa has honored her husband and daughter on several special occasions. However, just a little over a week ago, she took a moment to open up about how she’s been dealing with their loss.
“Let me be real,” she shared on Instagram Stories on Jan. 15. “Grief is a messed up cluster of emotions. One day you’re in the moment laughing and the next day you don’t feel like being alive.”
The proud mom explained she wanted to speak out in order to help others going through the same thing.
“I want to say this for people struggling with grief and heartbreaking loss. Find your reason to live,” she encouraged. “I know it’s hard. I look at my daughters and I try to push through that feeling for them. Death is guaranteed but living the rest of the day isn’t. Find your reason.”
Vanessa’s 18-year-old daughter Natalia expressed a similar message a month prior, saying, “I wasn’t going to do this one, but thought it was important to share because you never know when someone is going through problems of their own.”
“I genuinely think that it is so important to find your close circle of trusted people and be able to vocalize your feelings to them when you are down or not feeling like yourself,” she added. “This is also a lot easier said than done but just know that you are never alone. This is something I have learned throughout this year and still continue to work at with the help of close family and friends.”