This is your Bachelor Nation couple status check!
On Saturday, The Bachelorette season 13 star Rachel Lindsay married her chosen winner Bryan Abasolo in an elegant ceremony overlooking the ocean in Cancun, Mexico.
The two are the fourth couple from the Bachelor spinoff series to tie the knot. The remaining three are married with children. Overall, six Bachelorette couples are still together out of 15…that’s a 40% success rate, but it started out strong; the very first Bachelorette, Trista Rehn Sutter, went on to marry and have a family with her winner, Ryan Sutter.
But the Bachelor men didn’t fare better. Only one star, Sean Lowe, went on to marry his winner, Catherine Giudice Lowe, and the two have two kids. The most recent Bachelor, Colton Underwood, initially broke up with Cassie Randolph, then reconciled with her and the two are still together to this day. No engagement, though. And two Bachelors ended up finding their happily ever after with their runner-ups.
Much more romance bloomed off-camera for Bachelor in Paradise couples. Three couples married and two pairs had children. And fan-favorite Bachelor Nation couple Ashley Iaconetti wed Jared Haibon earlier this month after dating on and off for years.
See which Bachelor and Bachelorette stars are still together and which ones called it quits:
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Hannah Brown & Jed Wyatt
Status: Split.
On the Bachelorette season 15 finale, it was revealed they got engaged but then broke up after he told her that he had dated another woman up until a week before the show, adding that their relationship was not serious and had ended. Brown then said she read a story about him and his alleged ex, Haley Stevens, which contradicted his version.
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Hannah Brown & Tyler Cameron
Status: Split.
After her breakup from Jed Wyatt, Brown reconciled with her runner-up and the two even spent the night together at her home. But he soon ended up pursuing something with model Gigi Hadid, and he and Brown were dunzo again.
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Rachel Lindsay & Bryan Abasolo
Status: Married.
While Rachel revealed before her season of The Bachelorette even began airing that she ended her journey engaged, fans had to wait until the dramatic finale to find out if it was Bryan or Peter Kraus who put a ring on it. Rachel and Bryan celebrated their engagement with parties in Dallas and Miami, their respective hometowns. The two wed in August 2019.
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Ashley Iaconetti & Jared Haibon
Status: Married
It’s Bachelor Nation’s IRL rom-com, as the BFFs fell in love three years after Ashley I. first cried over Jared on Bachelor in Paradise. After revealing they were together in a 45-minute episode of her web series The Story of Us, much to the delight of fans, Jared got down on one knee during production on season five of the spinoff. The two wed in August 2019.
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Colton Underwood & Cassie Randolph
Status: Dating
Fans were a little stunned when Cassie chose to leave Colton’s season of The Bachelor, fearing she wasn’t in love with him enough. So Colton stunned right back by jumping a fence and running away before breaking it off with the other two remaining women and going after Cassie anyway. Now they’re happily just dating.
Kaitlyn Bristowe & Jason Tartick
Status: Dating
After her split from Shawn Booth, Kaitlyn Bristowe found love with Jason Tartick, who was a contestant during Becca Kufrin’s season of The Bachelorette. He asked her out during a taping of her podcast in January 2019, and they’ve been adorable ever since.
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Arie Luyendyk Jr. & Lauren Burnham
Status: Married + 1
After waffling between Lauren B. and Becca K. for his entire finale, with his heart clearly telling him to pick Lauren and the rest of the world telling him to pick Becca, he picked Becca. Then he changed his mind and went back to Lauren, and now they seem truly inseparable. They tied the knot in January 2019 and welcomed their first child, daughter Alessia Ren Luyendyk, the following May.
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Kaitlyn Bristowe & Shawn Booth
Status: Split
A little more than three years after they got engaged on The Bachelorette, Kaitlyn and Shawn have split up. In a statement to People, they said that they had decided to go their separate ways.
“This difficult decision comes after thoughtful, respectful consideration. Even though we are parting as a couple, we’re very much committed to remaining friends. We have both evolved as people, which is taking us in different directions, but with the hope that we will continue to support each other in new ways. Due to the nature of how we met, our relationship has always been very public, and we have enjoyed sharing it with all of you, but we ask that you respect our decision and our privacy at this time.”
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Jordan Kimball & Jenna Cooper
Status: Split
Just one day after their proposal was aired in the Bachelor in Paradise season five finale, Jordan took to Instagram to reveal the couple had engaged their engagement after allegations surfaced that Jenna was cheating on him.
“I deal with unreasonable circumstances reasonably and have come to terms with a decision to remove myself from the relationship, it breaks my heart to think, feel and fall for this,” he wrote. “It’s dropped me. Fumbling emotions and being understanding is not easy.”
Reality Steve published screenshots earlier in the day, which purported to show she had been corresponding with an unidentified man, via text, about the nature of her relationship with the male model, claiming it was all for business reasons.
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Annaliese Puccini & Kamil Nicalek
Status: Dating.
The Bachelor in Paradise season five couple split during the show but it was revealed at the reunion that they were back together.
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Taylor Nolan & Derek Peth
Status: Split.
The two got engaged on Bachelor in Paradise season four but split in June 2018.
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Ashley Iaconetti & Kevin Wendt
Status: Split
Ashley I. finally got to leave a Bachelor show in a relationship, but her whirlwind romance with Canadian Kevin on The Bachelor Winter Games only lasted a few months before they parted ways, reportedly citing issues with the distance.
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Becca Kufrin & Garrett Yrigoyen
Status: Engaged.
The Bachelorette season 14 star and her winner are still engaged as of August 2019.
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Lacey Mark & Daniel Maguire
Status: Split.
The two ended their relationship after Bachelor in Paradise season four.
Kendall Long and Joe Amabile
Status: Dating.
The Bachelor in Paradise season five couple split during the show but it was revealed at the reunion that they were back together.
Astrid Loch & Kevin Wendt
Status: Dating.
The Bachelor in Paradise season five couple split during the show but it was revealed at the reunion that they were back together.
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Chris Randone & Krystal Nielson
Status: Married
The fitness-loving couple got engaged during the Bachelor in Paradise season five finale, and soon thereafter Chris moved in with Krystal. Their love story continued one year later when they tied the knot in June 2019 a Puerto Vallarta ceremony officiated by none other than Chris Harrison.
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Courtney Dober & Lily McManus
Status: Split
While they didn’t get a ton of screentime during Winter Games, the finale revealed Australian Courtney and New Zealander Lily to be one heck of a couple. After touring the U.S. in an RV and documenting the entire thing on Instagram and Youtube, Lily and Courtney both posted lengthy and beautiful statements on their Instagrams explaining that they have decided to split, but remain friends.
“Lily and I have chosen not to end our relationship but to continue it as mates,” Courtney wrote. “We’re best friends and its become clear to both of us that the emotional side of our relationship just doesn’t allow us to be the best versions of ourselves.”
“It makes my eyes leak a little bit but myself and Court have decided to split on mutual terms,” Lily echoed. “I love Court with every ounce of my being, that long limbed f**k will be a part of my life for a very long time.”
They still post about each other on Instagram pretty regularly.
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Taylor Nolan & Derek Peth
Status: Split
They were solid all of Paradise (other than that brief moment when Derek’s response to an argument was “F–k you”), and Derek was actually shaking as he got down on one knee at the BIP reunion taping to ask Taylor to marry him. But after one year, the couple announced the end of their engagement in an exclusive statement to E! News.
“It is with much sadness that we have decided to end our engagement. We put everything we could into our relationship and are heartbroken to go forward separately, but we know this is the best decision for the both of us,” the exes said. “We will still be present in each other’s lives with support, admiration and respect for each other.”
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Lace Morris & Grant Kemp
Status: Split.
The two ended their relationship after Bachelor in Paradise season three.
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Dean Unglert & Lesley Murphy
Status: Split
After four months of dating, E! New exclusively learned that Dean and Lesley had called it quits, with a source telling us, “Distance and traveling were a factor. They are both going to continue to be friendly and are on good terms, but their romantic relationship has ended.”
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Clare Crawley & Benoit Beausejour-Savard
Status: Split
While Clare sent Benoit packing during The Bachelor Winter Games, they shocked everyone by getting together after the show. The Canadian sweetheart popped the question during the reunion taping, and Clare’s brief jacuzzi argument with German Christian was all but forgotten.
Less than two months later, the couple announced their break up in a joint Instagram post. “We do understand however, having a public engagement on TV kind of changes that. It’s with a heavy heart that we have mutually decided to end our relationship,” the former couple wrote.
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Stassi Yaramchuk & Luke Pell
Status: Split
While they left Winter Games together, it was revealed during the reunion show that Luke didn’t even get Stassi’s phone number, and she never heard from him again. She wanted nothing to do with him, and for good reason.
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Arie Luyendyk Jr. & Becca Kufrin
Status: Split
Ouch. Becca first appeared to have won The Bachelor and a sweet proposal from Arie during which he promised to love her every day forever. Then, a couple of months later, he dumped her in front of two TV cameras and went back to his runner-up. It was brutal, but Becca’s the next Bachelorette, so perhaps things aren’t all bad.
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Lacy Faddoul & Marcus Grodd
Status: Split.
The two got engaged on the Bachelor in Paradise season one finale and had a wedding ceremony in 2015 on the season two premiere. They split in 2016 and revealed their marriage was not legal.
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Raven Gates & Adam Gottschalk
Status: Engaged
While we still can’t forget Adam’s creepy mini-me doll, Raven has somehow managed to look past it and find the possible love of her life. They had a great time in the fantasy suite, and are now gallivanting all over the world together. Adam even met Raven’s parents during the BIP reunion taping, and they’ve got plans for Raven to meet his. Adam popped the question in May 2019.
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Amanda Stanton & Robby Hayes
Status: Split. And it ended badly.
While Amanda said goodbye to Robby in Paradise, she changed her mind once she was home. She revealed during the reunion that she gave him “maybe 20 chances” to get things right, but it didn’t work. Plus, he MIGHT have cheated on her, but he claims there was just a picture of him close to a girl, not actually making out with the girl. OK, Robby.
Nick Viall & Vanessa Grimaldi
Status: Split!
Just five months after their finale aired, E! News exclusively reported Nick and Vanessa ended their engagement. “It’s with a great amount of heartbreak for the both us as we have decided to end our engagement,” said in a joint statement. “We gave this relationship our all and we are saddened that we did not get the fairytale ending we hoped for. We will continue to be there for each other no matter what. This hasn’t been an easy decision, however, as we part ways, we do so with lots of love and admiration for each other.”
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Evan Bass & Carly Waddell
Status: Married with children
Though she initially rejected his advances, Carly finally fell for Evan during Bachelor in Paradise‘s third season, and the couple quickly moved in together in Nashville. Carly and Evan said “I do” in Bachelor in Paradise‘s fourth season premiere event. Carly and Evan welcomed daughter Isabella Evelyn Bass in February 2018 and announced in May 2019 they are expecting their second child in November. Evan is also a dad to sons Nathan, Liam and Ensley from a previous relationship.
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Tanner Tolbert & Jade Roper
Status: Married + 2
Less than four months after Tanner proposed to Jade on the season two finale of Bachelor in Paradise, the super-cute duo said “I do” in front of family, friends, many franchise alums and ABC’s cameras in a ceremony in January 2016. In August 2017, Jade and Tanner welcomed their first child, a girl named Emerson Avery. Jade welcomed the couple’s second child, son Brooks Easton, in July 2019 via accidental home birth.
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Josh Murray & Amanda Stanton
Status: Split
After ending Bachelor in Paradise‘s third season engaged, despite some controversy surrounding his previous relationship with Bachelorette Andi Dorfman, Josh moved in with Amanda and her two young daughters. However, after a few months, a source told E! News the “volatile” couple split because of “his temper.”
JoJo Fletcher & Jordan Rodgers
Status: Engaged.
While the Bachelorette season 12 ended in 2016 with Fletcher happily accepting the former NFL star’s (and estranged younger brother of Green Bay Packers QB Aaron Rodgers) proposal, the two admitted it was tough for them during the months following, as negative tabloid rumors and attention surrounded their relationship while the show aired. Despite the challenge, Jordan moved to Dallas to be with his love. They purchased their first home together in the city in July 2019.
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Ben Higgins & Lauren Bushnell
Status: Split!
After documenting their engagement (and ultimately postponing the wedding) on Freeform’s Ben & Lauren: Happily Ever After?, the couple announced in May 2017 that they’d called the whole thing off. “It is with heavy hearts that we announce our decision to go our separate ways,” they told People in a joint statement. “We feel fortunate for the time we had together, and will remain friends with much love and respect for one another. We wish nothing but the best for each other, and ask for your support and understanding at this time.” As for why, “They just wanted different things. They had been struggling for a while…It was a mutual break up for the most part,” a source close to Bushnell told E! News. “I think Ben would have kept wanting to make it work, though. It’s really sad. They’re both such great people, honestly.”
Becca Tilley & Robert Graham
Status: Split!
After both failed to find love during their multiple seasons of experiences (Becca appeared on Chris Soules and Ben Higgins‘ seasons of The Bachelor, while Robert competed on Desiree Hartsock‘s season of The Bachelorette and season one of Bachelor in Paradise), the Bachelor Nation alums began dating in 2016. E! News confirmed in May 2017 they had called it quits.
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Grant Kemp & Lace Morris
Status: Splitsville.
After a tumultuous romance on Bachelor in Paradise season three, Grant and Lace ended the season engaged and moved in together. But after three months, the duo called it quits. So…about those “Grace” (their couple name) tattoos?
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Marcus Grodd & Lacy Faddoul
Status: Split!
While the duo swapped vows in Bachelor in Paradise‘s season two premiere, after ending the first season of the spinoff engaged, a source confirmed to us that Marcus Grodd and Lacy Faddoul have called it quits less than one year after saying “I do.” Plus, Grodd revealed that they were never actually officially married, as their Mexico wedding wasn’t legal.
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Sean Lowe & Catherine (Giudici) Lowe
Status: Married + 2
And then they did a different kind of it and made a baby! After tying the knot on Jan. 26, 2014 in front of more than 6 million viewers on live TV, the fan-favorite season 17 Bachelor lovebirds are now the proud parents of sons Samuel Thomas, who was born in July 2016, and Isaiah Hendrix, who was born in May 2018.
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Britt Nilsson & Brady Toops
Status: Split. Well, that was fast! After the musician decided to leave the show for Britt after Kaitlyn Bristowe was chosen to be the next Bachelorette, Brady and Britt dated for less than six months before calling it quits. Long-distance may have been to blame, as Brady headed back to Nashville in a recent update shown on the show, with Britt saying in Los Angeles, calling the move “a real test.” That it was!
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Chris Soules & Whitney Bischoff
Status: Split.
Chris Soules and his fiancee Whitney Bischoff split a mere two months after the season 19 Bachelor proposed during the finale. “Whitney Bischoff and Chris Soules have mutually and amicably decided to end their engagement,” the couple said in a statement. “They part with nothing but respect and admiration for one another and will continue to be supportive friends. They wish to thank everyone who has supported them through this journey.”
Andi Dorfman& Josh Murray
Status: Split
The Atlanta-based duo called off their engagement in January, less than six months after their season ended, with Andi Dorfman and Josh Murray releasing a joint statement. “After several months of being engaged and working on our relationship, we have decided that it’s best for both of us to go our separate ways,” the couple said. “We are very sad that it has come to this point, but this is what’s best for both of us individually. We will continue to be good friends and have nothing but great things to say about each other and wish each other the best.”
Cody Sattler & Michelle Money
Status: Dunzo.
Bachelor and Bachelor Pad alum Michelle Money unexpectedly fell for Cody Sattler, one of Andi Dorfman‘s castoffs, when they met on the franchise’s latest spinoff Bachelor in Paradise, the duo announced their split in a joint statement six months after season one aired.
Juan Pablo Galavis & Nikki Ferrell
Status: Split.
Even Couples Therapy couldn’t prevent these two from heading to splitsville, as Bachelor star Juan Pablo Galavis and Nikki Ferrell confirmed their split in November 2014. “There was a while where I did feel like he was totally in love with me. Was it too late? Probably,” Nikki later told Chris Harrison of their break-up.
Nikki is now married to Tyler VanLoo, while Juan Pablo wed Osmariel Villalobos.
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Desiree Hartsock & Chris Siegfried
Status: Married + 2
Despite all the naysayers, Desiree and Chris are still together! Season nine of The Bachelorette ended with Desiree getting her heart broken by the guy she loved (Brooks), switching gears to Chris, with the two getting married in January 2015, and welcoming their first child, son Asher Wrigley, in October 2016. They welcomed a second son, Zander Cruz, in January 2019.
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Emily Maynard & Jef Holm
Status: Split.
The Bachelorette couple ended their engagement in Oct. 2012, calling their breakup “a very difficult and heartbreaking decision.” It was the second engagement that didn’t work out for Emily. But…the third time may be the charm! Emily married Tyler Johnson in 2014, and has four kids as of May 2019.
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Andrew Firestone & Jen Scheff
Status: Split.
Firestone put a ring on Scheff, but they ended things after seven months, which is a long time in Bachelortown. Andrew married Ivana Bozilovic in 2008, and they welcomed a son in January 2014. Jen married Joe Waterman in 2009 and they have two children.
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Alex Michel & Amanda Marsh
Status: Split.
The very first season of The Bachelor did not end in an engagement, but instead they decided to take a chance on the relationship without a ring. They broke up several months later.
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Aaron Buerge & Helene Eksterowicz
Status: Split.
Buerge proposed to Eksterowicz at the end of season two, but they broke up five weeks after the finale aired.
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Ashley Hebert and JP Rosenbaum
Status: Married + 2
Back in season seven, Ashley Hebert chose JP Rosenbaum during her finale, and they married in 2012. They now have two kids, son Fordham Rhys, born in 2014 and a daughter, Essex Reese, born in 2016.
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