Parenting

I never used contraception & now I’m pregnant at 18 – but I’ll never have 22 kids like mum


MILLIE RADFORD sneaked into the toilet of the ten-bed home she shares with her mum, dad and 17 siblings.

She took a deep breath and pulled the pregnancy test from her bag.

 18-year-old Millie Radford, seventh child of Britain's largest family, is 12 weeks pregnant

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18-year-old Millie Radford, seventh child of Britain’s largest family, is 12 weeks pregnant
 Millie still lives at home with her parents and 17 of her siblings

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Millie still lives at home with her parents and 17 of her siblings

Who’s who

SUE and Noel are pictured with all their children, except Chris, 30, and Sophie, 26, who have both left home . . .

  1. . Chloe, 24
  2. Jack, 22
  3. Daniel, 21
  4. Luke, 19
  5. Millie, 18
  6. Katie, 17, holding Archie, two
  7. James, 16
  8. Ellie, 14
  9. Aimee, 13, holding Bonnie, one
  10. Josh, 12
  11. Max, 11
  12. Tillie, nine
  13. Oscar, eight
  14. Casper, seven
  15. Hallie, four
  16. Phoebe, three

The 18-year-old — and seventh child of Britain’s largest family — says: “My cycle is regular, so I knew I was pregnant. But I was scared of finding out for sure — and what Mum would say.

“As ‘two-three weeks pregnant’ flashed up, I knew instantly I was keeping the baby. My fear immediately turned to excitement.”

Her mum is Sue Radford, currently pregnant with her 22nd child, a daughter due early next month.

Millie says: “It’s weird that my baby will have an aunt who is only five months older. But it means they’ll hopefully be really close.”

 Millie pictured with her parents Sue and Noel at three weeks old

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Millie pictured with her parents Sue and Noel at three weeks old
 Her scan at 12 weeks, taken at the Royal Lancaster Infirmary

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Her scan at 12 weeks, taken at the Royal Lancaster Infirmary

Millie, who is 14 weeks pregnant, conceived during a six-month relationship with a boy around her own age. The pair are no longer together but he has vowed to be a part of his baby’s life.

Millie says: “We didn’t use protection. I knew there was a risk of pregnancy but I didn’t think it’d be so easy.

“And I didn’t worry about STIs, as I trusted him. I’d known him for years.”

After that pregnancy test in early January, Millie knew she had to tell her parents Sue, 43, and Noel, 49, who run a bakery business, they were going to become grandparents for the fifth time.

 Millie's child was conceived during a six-month relationship with a boy around her own age

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Millie’s child was conceived during a six-month relationship with a boy around her own age
 She said that she did not use protection as she did not realise getting pregnant 'would be so easy'

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She said that she did not use protection as she did not realise getting pregnant ‘would be so easy’

She was nervous about breaking the news and says: “My parents have always seen me as the ‘good girl’. They are not strict but I knew that telling them would make it real.

“Thankfully, they weren’t disappointed. They were excited.”

Sue and Noel are also parents to Chris, 30, who no longer lives in the family home; Sophie, 26, who has also moved out; Chloe, 24; Jack, 22; Daniel, 21; Luke, 19; Katie, 17; James, 16; Ellie, 14; Aimee, 13; Josh, 12; Max, 11; Tillie, nine; Oscar, eight; Casper, seven; Hallie, four; Phoebe, three; Archie, two, and Bonnie, one.

Sadly, the couple’s 17th child, Alfie, was stillborn in 2014.

 Millie, pictured with her Mum and brother Daniel, was nervous about telling her family

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Millie, pictured with her Mum and brother Daniel, was nervous about telling her family
 Sue and Noel Radford hail from Morecambe, Lancs, where they have raised their brood together

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Sue and Noel Radford hail from Morecambe, Lancs, where they have raised their brood together

The couple, who live in Morecambe, Lancs, accompanied Millie to her 12-week scan at the Royal Lancaster Infirmary on February 24.

Millie says: “When I was at the hospital, people couldn’t believe we were a mum and daughter who were both pregnant. “Lots of the staff were clamouring to be my mum’s midwife.

“They all want to watch her give birth. But I didn’t feel overshadowed because I can see why people love her.

“Midwives know her story and think she’s amazing.”

WARDROBE BATTLES

As for Millie’s own labour, she is not looking forward to it.

She says: “Seeing how happy children make my mum, I grew up knowing I wanted kids. But I was convinced I’d use a surrogate.

“The one thing I am really frightened about is labour. I’ve never seen my mum give birth, but I’ve watched it on TV on One Born Every Minute. I know I’ll just have to get through it.

“I want to do it as naturally as possible like Mum, who has never had a C-section or epidural.”

 Millie and her mum, pictured here when Millie was a baby, travelled together for her 12-week scan

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Millie and her mum, pictured here when Millie was a baby, travelled together for her 12-week scan

Labour aside, Millie is well prepared for a first-time mum. She says: “I’ve changed more nappies than I can count and I am an expert at getting squirmy babies into tiny clothes.

“I have had a lot of practice. I started helping Mum with the babies when I was around eight years old — changing them, bathing them and feeding them. My older siblings did it for me, and it’s just how our family works.

“I don’t know how they did it, but I also spent quite a bit of one-on-one time with my parents, too.”

Contrary to their critics’ claims, Millie says their home was like any other.

She adds: “We did after-school clubs, Brownies and all those things. The only difference was there were more of us.

 Millie believes she is well prepared for a first-time mum, having had a 'lot of practice' with her own family

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Millie believes she is well prepared for a first-time mum, having had a ‘lot of practice’ with her own family

“It’s not like I was living in hand-me-downs, either. We always had new toys and clothes.

“I don’t ever remember having an old bike or Barbie. People think our house must be madness but it’s really calm and all the kids are so well behaved.

“Of course we have wardrobe battles. That must be the worst thing about so many siblings, but I get to borrow all my sisters’ clothes.”

Growing up, Millie shared a bedroom with her sister Katie before getting her own space aged 14.

 She shared a bedroom until she was aged 14 but is hoping to move into her own flat

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She shared a bedroom until she was aged 14 but is hoping to move into her own flat

But now she is hoping to move into her own flat before the baby arrives. She says: “I know I’ll be lonely when I first get there but my siblings will be over all the time, raiding my wardrobe and fridge.

“I see having my own place as a big achievement. It’s something I want.”

Millie, who plans to take a year’s maternity leave from her bakery job, announced the pregnancy on February 25 via her family’s Instagram account.

An astonishing 30,000 people liked the post, with Millie’s personal followers soaring to 25,200.

 She claims she is 'very mature' and ready for her first child, despite being only eighteen

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She claims she is ‘very mature’ and ready for her first child, despite being only eighteen

But on Mumsnet many users branded her “irresponsible”, saying she has “ruined her life”. Millie says: “My life isn’t ruined. I’ve just started my adult life earlier than some.

“I don’t want to go travelling or go to clubs.

“I’m a homebody and I’d be much happier with a takeaway on the sofa with Mum and Dad than drinking cocktails out of a bucket in Thailand.

“And I am not irresponsible, I’m very mature. I’ve had to be to set a good example to my younger brothers and sisters.

 According to Millie, those who criticise her family are simply jealous

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According to Millie, those who criticise her family are simply jealous

“Some people judge us, especially my mum, but I put it down to jealousy.

“Mum never rises to it or lets it bother her, and we are the same. It’s a valuable thing she’s taught us.”

So will Millie be having as many children as her mum?

“Absolutely not,” she says. “I don’t want to drive a minibus to school each day. Three is my maximum.

 Millie says that three children will be her maximum, as she doesn't want to drive her kids to school in a minibus

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Millie says that three children will be her maximum, as she doesn’t want to drive her kids to school in a minibus

WHO’S WHO

SUE and Noel are pictured with all their children, except Chris, 30, and Sophie, 26, who have both left home . . .

1 Chloe, 24

2 Jack, 22

3 Daniel, 21

4 Luke, 19

5 Millie, 18

6 Katie, 17, holding Archie, two

7 James, 16

8 Ellie, 14

9 Aimee, 13, holding      Bonnie, one

10 Josh, 12

11 Max, 11

12 Tillie, nine

13 Oscar, eight

14 Casper, seven

15 Hallie, four

16 Phoebe, three

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