My wife and I have been happily married for 10 years but our sex life is a relic of the past. My sex drive is higher than hers, and this means I am living with an unmet need, which affects how I behave, particularly around other women. I know I should discuss this with her but if I tell her I am tempted to have an affair because I’m not getting sex at home, this feels like blackmail. On the other hand, I am not prepared to resign myself to a sexless marriage. Is it time to separate?
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