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Five Great Reads: an American Downton, parental impostor syndrome and a 70s must-watch


Hello and welcome to Five Great Reads, your mid-morning wrap of slow news and great writing, lovingly placed in a ziplock bag by me, Alyx Gorman, Guardian Australia’s lifestyle editor (more on the ziplock later).

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Now we’re done with that meme, on to the reads.

1. A visual timeline of the Tonga volcano eruption

From 30km-high smoke plumes to tsunami warnings across the Pacific rim, this multimedia explainer shows what happened, where and when during the Hunga Tonga-Hunga Ha’apai eruption.

Show me on a map:

A map showing the location of the Hunga Tonga-Hunga Ha’apai eruption

Bonus read: Initial reports suggest there have been no mass casualties from the eruption but significant damage. Tonga’s deputy head of mission in Australia, Curtis Tuihalangingie, is urging patience when it comes to offering aid. Concerned with private fundraising efforts, he has asked the public to wait until a disaster relief fund is announced. “When people see such a huge explosion they want to help.”

2. Christine Baranski’s sass and class

In her profile of Christine Baranski, Hadley Freeman describes the Good Fight star as an “Oh, her …” kind of actor. “Casual observers might not recognise her name, but they always, instantly, know her face.” Now, as she takes on “the Maggie Smith role” in what is being pitched as an American Downton Abbey, we’re likely to hear a fair few more “Oh hers”.

As she prepares to star in the new ‘American Downton’, the 69-year-old actor talks about her blue-collar roots and the pleasures of late-career fame
As Christine Baranski prepares to star in the new ‘American Downton’, the 69-year-old actor talks about her blue-collar roots and the pleasures of late-career fame. Photograph: Alison Cohen Rosa/Heyday Productions, LLC and Universal Television LLC.

Notable quote: “I can look back and think: ‘how often did I not get a role because I wasn’t pretty enough?’” Baranski says. “But look at the position I’m in now – two great roles, [my characters are] both No 1 on the call sheet. I’m like: ‘Damn! Late 60s and here I am.’ There is progress!”

How long will it take me to read? About four minutes.

3. Parental impostor syndrome

Usually we talk about impostor syndrome in a workplace context; it’s that feeling that everyone else knows something you don’t. But what happens when that sense of playacting creeps its way into your home?

Ranee with her husband Sam. Photo by Linda Nylind. 17/12/2021.
‘It was as if I had fake written on my forehead’ … Ranee and her husband, Sam, who have two adopted children. Photograph: Linda Nylind/The Guardian

Notable quote: “I remember walking into the playground and thinking, ‘everyone knows you’re not a real mum,’” says Ranee of the period shortly after she adopted her two children. “It was as if I had … ‘fake’ written on my forehead.”

Feelgood solution: “We think we have to live to other people’s rules but then we feel inadequate when we don’t meet the mark,” says Blair, a single mother of three. “All the parenting books are templates. You have to invent your own way of parenting, because every child is unique.”

4. Why a 50-year-old art doco is still a must-watch

John Berger’s Ways of Seeing “has inspired generations of writers, artists and curators, spawning academic conferences and tribute programmes,” writes Olivia Laing. Oh, and Emily Ratajkowski is a fan too.

Berger’s series and book now forms the bedrock of how we interpret art and advertising
John Berger’s series and book now forms the bedrock of how we interpret art and advertising. Illustration: James Dawe/Images from Alamy Stock Photo, Getty images/The Guardian

Flashback moment: “Broadcast in the pre-VCR, pre-digital age, the program itself was swiftly inaccessible,” Laing writes. “It was repeated once in 1973, after winning a Bafta, but was not screened again until 30 July 1994. Unless you had resorted to that new technology the video recorder, as some prescient teachers did, it was the companion book that gave Ways of Seeing its longevity.”

How long will it take me to read? About four minutes.

5. Helpful tip: bag your mask

If you’ve found yourself wearing your face mask as an elbow guard when it’s not on your face (guilty), this guide to caring for Covid masks is a handy refresher.

So, I shouldn’t string it on my forearm? No. Instead, make like Angela Merkel and bag it up.

German Chancellor Angela Merkel put her used face mask into a plastic bag as she arrived to give her annual summer press conference in August 2020
German Chancellor Angela Merkel puts her used face mask into a plastic bag as she arrives to give her annual summer press conference in August 2020. Photograph: Michael Kappeler/AFP/Getty Images





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