“My partner and I… I used to go, ‘She was a nightmare’.
“[Or] ‘It was a terrible result, I can’t understand why he beat me? I was so much better than they are. He beat us.’ I complained about everything.
“After a period of time he went, ‘Every week we come in for a lesson and every week you tell me it’s somebody else’s fault.
“‘You’ve never once told me it’s your fault,’ I said, ‘How very dare you’.”