Get to know each other during date night (Picture: Ella Byworth for Metro.co.uk)

If you’ve never played a game of would you rather, you’re missing out.

The premise is simple. You’re given two different scenarios, and asked which one you’d rather.

On the surface it seems somewhat silly, but when you make sure both the options are on a level playing field (or pleasure, grossness, or general weirdness) it can be interesting to see what people pick.

On top of that, adding in a sexual element can help you get to know your partner’s deepest desires and seriously spice up a date night.

We’ve compiled a whole load of these questions that you can ask your partner to get the ball rolling.

These are also lots of fun to ask with friends.

Sex would you rather questions

  1. Would you rather never orgasm again or orgasm 50 times a day?
  2. Would you rather only be able to have sex in a bed for the rest of your life or never be able to have sex in a bed ever again?
  3. Would you rather everyone you know had to see a video of you having sex or have to watch a video of your parents having sex?
  4. Would you rather sleep with someone you’re repulsed by but the sex is amazing or sleep with a person your find extremely attractive but the sex is below average?
  5. Would you rather the lights always been left on fully or the room always be jet black when you have sex?
  6. Would you rather sex only ever lasted five minutes or only ever lasted five hours?
  7. Would you rather your grandma/grandpa or boss had to see your porn search history?
  8. Would you rather only ever watch girl on girl porn or only ever watch man on man porn?
  9. Would you rather never have a phone again or never have sex again?
  10. Would you rather be completely silent every time you have sex or scream at the top of your lungs every time?
  11. Would you rather cry every time you have sex or never be able to orgasm?
  12. Would you rather cry or fart every time you climax?
  13. Would you rather have an orgasm whenever you eat bread or have an orgasm every time you’re on a bus or train?
  14. Would you rather have to have sex with your clothes on forever (apart from your genitals, obviously) or have to spend one day a year walking around completely naked in public?
  15. Would you rather send nudes to a stranger or send nudes to your family?
  16. Would you rather send nudes to a work colleague or send nudes to your ex?
  17. Would you rather never masturbate again or never have sex again?
  18. Would you rather have a threesome or go to a sex party and sleep with many more people?
  19. Would you rather release a video of you having sex or a video of you masturbating?
  20. Would you rather have kinky sex or romantic sex?
  21. Would you rather have sex with a centaur or a faun?
  22. Would you rather have sex with a dead body or never have sex again?
  23. Would you rather star in a popular porn video or your girlfriend/boyfriend star in one?
  24. Would you rather have sex every day early in the morning or late every night?
  25. Would you rather be a sugar baby or a sugar daddy/mummy?
  26. Would you rather have to scratch your partner (visibly) every time you sleep together or be scratched by them every time?
  27. Would you rather have sex with your celebrity crush or a porn star?
  28. Would you rather sleep with your ex or sleep with a hated dictator?
  29. Would you rather only have oral or only have anal?
  30. Would you rather spank your partner or be spanked?
  31. Would you rather be with a partner who’s experienced or someone who’s never had sex?
  32. Would you rather be with someone who wants sex multiple times a day or sex very rarely?
  33. Would you rather have sex in the bathroom or the kitchen?
  34. Would you rather have sex with someone who orgasms very quickly or someone who takes forever to orgasm?
  35. Would you rather get a lapdance at a strip club or give a lapdance to a stranger?
  36. Would you rather be submissive or dominant in the bedroom?
  37. Would you rather sleep with your best friend’s parent or your parent’s best friend?
  38. Would you rather go on top or on bottom?
  39. Would you rather be with someone clean-shaven or big and bushy down below?
  40. Would you rather be a bad kisser or bad at giving head?
  41. Would you rather be with someone who’s a bad kisser or someone who’s bad at giving head?
  42. Would you rather end up with someone you can’t make orgasm or someone who can’t make you orgasm?
  43. Would you rather be a virgin at 40 or never be able to have sex again at 40?
  44. Would you rather sleep with a priest/nun or somebody who’s already married?
  45. Would you rather get horny in inappropriate situations or never get horny again?
  46. Would you rather give or receive?
  47. Would you rather be blindfolded or handcuffed?
  48. Would you rather have sex with a mermaid whose top half is human and bottom half is fish or one whose top half is fish and bottom half is human?
  49. Would you rather swallow or spit?
  50. Would you rather watch your partner have sex with their ex or a stranger?
  51. Would you rather a one-night-stand leaves right after or stays the night?
  52. Would you rather watch your partner masturbate or have your partner watch you while you masturbate?
  53. Would you rather hear your friends have sex or your friends hear you have sex?
  54. Would you rather give head in public or get head in public?
  55. Would you rather be fingered/get a handjob or finger someone/give a handjob in public?
  56. Would you rather never use sex toys again or have to use sex toys every time you masturbate and have sex?
  57. Would you rather have foreplay with ice cubes or warm candle wax?
  58. Would you rather have more sex or more foreplay?
  59. Would you rather have a one-night-stand with your high school crush or your celebrity crush?
  60. Would you rather sleep with your cousin or your worst ex?
  61. Would you rather have sex from behind or missionary?
  62. Would you rather not kiss or hold hands in public or be over-the-top with PDAs?
  63. Would you rather be with someone who’s completely still during sex or completely silent?
  64. Would you rather have a threesome with people you find mildly attractive or sex with just one person you find very attractive?
  65. Would you rather never eat your favourite meal again or never have sex again?
  66. Would you rather be peed on in the bedroom or pee on someone else?
  67. Would you rather make your partner cry every time they saw you naked or laugh every time they saw you naked?
  68. Would you rather be caught having sex by a police officer or your grandparents?
  69. Would you rather be with someone into BDSM or someone who likes to roleplay?
  70. Would you rather burp every time you kiss someone or orgasm every time you kiss someone (even on the cheek)?
  71. Would you rather have sex with your best friend’s sibling or your sibling’s best friend?
  72. Would you rather find true love with no sex or never find true love but be able to have sex whenever you wanted?
  73. Would you rather use cream or syrup during foreplay?
  74. Would you rather sleep with someone who never showers or someone who never brushes their teeth?
  75. Would you rather watch your ex in a sex tape or your former school teacher?
  76. Would you rather have sex in a shower or sex in a hot tub?
  77. Would you rather give a love bite or receive a love bite?
  78. Would you rather be with someone who won’t kiss you during sex or who won’t perform oral?
  79. Would you rather be with someone with a great bum or great breasts/a six-pack?
  80. Would you rather have sex with a sex doll or watch your partner have sex with one?
  81. Would you rather have sex in a tent on a campsite or on a hotel balcony?
  82. Would you rather have sex with your partner in a school or a church?
  83. Would you rather have sex in a public toilet or in your car at a car park?
  84. Would you rather your partner dirty talks or just lightly moans during sex?
  85. Would you rather send nudes or receive news?
  86. Would you rather hook up with someone you met in a bar or someone you met online?
  87. Would you rather sleep with someone much older than you who’s amazing in bed or someone your age who’s just average?
  88. Would you rather suck a used condom or suck your partner’s dirty socks?
  89. Would you rather scream your ex’s name in bed or have your partner scream their ex’s name in bed?
  90. Would you rather have sex with one person for the rest of your life or multiple people but in only one position?

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